While online computer exploration opens a world of possibilities for young people, expanding their horizons and exposing them to different cultures and ways of life, they can be exposed to dangers as they explore the information highway. There are individuals who attempt to sexually exploit children through the use of online services and the Internet. The following is a list of helpful tips to protect your family.
Develop a trusting relationship with your child early
Keep the door of communication open
If you have reason to suspect your child is viewing inappropriate sites, do not overact – approach your son or daughter with respect
Add to online profiles that you monitor your child’s use of the Internet
Keep your computers in heavy traffic areas in your home
Know your children’s online friends
Use a pre-filter
Check CD’s, floppy and zip disks
Check History Files often
Spend time with your child as they surf the Internet
Ask your child to show you what IM (Instant messaging) looks like
Spend time with your child on-line, and have them teach you about their favorite on-line destinations
Get to know and use the “Parental Controls” provided by your Internet Service Provider and/or blocking software
Always maintain access to your child’s on-line account, and randomly check his or her account
Teach your child about responsible use of the resources on the Internet
Find out what safeguards are used at your child’s school, the public library and at the homes of your child’s friends. These are all places, outside your supervision, where a child could encounter an on-line predator
Instruct your child NEVER to arrange face-to-face meetings with someone they met on-line and NOT to respond to messages or bulletin board postings that are suggestive, obscene, belligerent or harassing
Tell your child to NEVER give out identifying information such as name, address, school name or telephone number to people they don’t know
Explain to your child to NEVER post pictures of them on the Internet – let them know this has seriously harmed other children
Teach your child to come and get you when they accessed something on the Internet that makes them feel uncomfortable, no matter what it is
Teach your child that the Internet is a good source for educational, recreational and creative searches, but has intentional landmines placed that could hurt them